A gift
my presence
makes the difference
As we mature we develop more and more an interest and the capability to engage in the world with meaningful action. Whether we decide to become a parent, to found our own company, or to hold a leading position in politics – we are following the call to exercise influence in the world and to engage in the field of our choice in full accordance with our values.
What is a reliable foundation from where we can contribute to the thriving of our communities and our world? The secret is as simple as powerful. It lays in the full acknowledgement of our humanness which includes the Golden Triangle of the tissue we are made of: a sensitive nervous system that seeks for safety, the wish to belong and to relate deeply to others and an inner drive to become what you are meant to be, a knowing which is written in your soul.
It is a delicate shift from maturing to engaging, for us as individuals, as groups and as a species. Conditions are needed in which we can experience both, our magnificence and our failing, we will need safe and flexible enough structures that allow for trust to emerge.
Stepping into a regenerative way of living will inevitably bring to light the destructive nature of the systems we hitherto built.
We will sense the suppressed pain and touch on unknown layers of shame.
The discomfort that usually comes with these feelings is often the great hinderer to go further. But this treshold is a natural part of the necessary course correction. If we can stay present in it it will release its precious gift of a reunion with life itself. The door to a new relating in awe and care will open.
It will become natural to us to build places that remind us of the sacredness of life – and to implement them into the manifold contexts we live in. We will also develop an understanding that we must gift ourselves into the repair of broken relationships where we become aware of them and where it is needed. To turn towards the wound – simply because we perceive it.
Even though highly rewarding and healing, this is not an easy path to walk. Energetically highly loaded feelings such as shame, fear or guilt will challenge us and bring us to our limits. And they will turn out to be true power banks if we are able to include them. To master that transition it is good to have someone by your side who knows the terrain from own experience. My special way of perceiving makes it possible. My simple presence holds the space.
My SEEING allows for the beginning of the transformation. Even things that can’t be made explicit start to move without your active doing – towards a new coherence. This can be of an inestimable value.
My presence
makes the difference
Meine Angebote, sei es im 1:1 Setting oder bei der Arbeit mit Gruppen, beinhalten etwas, das schwer in Worte zu fassen und zugleich von essentieller Bedeutung ist.
I SEE YOU: My simple presence will make all the difference. I have a special gift of seeing which allows for the unseen things that got stuck to emerge naturally. Where life was holding back things start to move again.
THE CREATION OF SACRED SPACES: Every place where humans are gathering regularly should include a space where the place and the manifold relationships that are embedding us in the ever present stream of life itself can be honoured. It is a space where people can pause, where they can bring their open questions and where they can connect to beauty. It can be unspectacular. The fact that it exists will make a difference that you can sense. I am helping you to find the place. Together we will design it in a way that feels “just right”.
TRAUMA KNOWLEDGE: there are things that you don’t learn in school and sometimes also not in life. A basic understanding of the functioning of our nervous system, of our need to belong and of the spiritual dimension that is essential to a human existence will provide you with an orienting compass that can help you navigate every future experience, whether known or unknown. We will find a way to integrate snippets of this knowledge in our together-time.
